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| 要好好学英文 |
11/13/2004 12:22 |
要好好学英文，了解美国文化。
在阳春白雪俱乐部转贴了一篇关于friends的文章。唉，发现自己原来不知道的东西太多了。 
不过，没关系，不懂就学。世上无难事，只怕有心人，相信大多数东东只要肯学，都能会的。
Currently studing the scripts of "Friends" and "that 70s show". Another of my favorite TV show is "Apprentice". I watch every episode.
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| 无题 |
11/13/2004 12:06 |
看来，有些事情，只要下决心，还是可以做到的。很高兴，前两天，没有怎么上网。Actually, this made today's net experience all the more exciting. 充分利用这个机会，狂灌了一把水， 
好了，又要沉下去了，过几天再浮上来冒个泡泡。
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| 跑步 |
11/04/2004 20:45 |
最近开始天天跑步，感觉很好。这两天看到别人写跑步的文章，抄过来自勉。嗯，跑步一定要坚持下去，坚持就是胜利。
“我也不知道为什么，去完gym后，我就觉得活力百倍，好像自己又年轻了10岁。我喜欢中长跑，尽管成绩不是很好，但是我还是喜欢，因为我觉得跑步能够折磨自己，让我知道我还活着。大学毕业后的第一年，我每天都6点起床去跑步，刚来美国的时候，自己也还可以坚持一段时间，但是到后来就不行了。真的可见，在美国，人的意志力是越来越弱了。跑步的时候，每次都有一个最累得点，在那个时候，都想休息一下，其实过了也就没事了。所以在那个点上，你就算是拼命也要坚持过去。很多时候，我觉得人生就像在跑步，很多时候，总觉得很累，很疲劳，很想休息休息，其实一休息就前功尽弃了。没有一件事会让你顺顺利利的，尤其是一些大事上面，请想一想，要是都那么轻松，每个人就都是bill gates乐。也是难事，过了，得到的也就越多，成就感就越强。最厉害的人就是那些能够在无法坚持的情况下再坚持一下，在忍无可忍之时再忍一下的人。
还有，在跑步的时候，最好不要想太多，因为，想的越多，自己跑得越累。我觉得，很多时候，人就是自己把自己的事情搞复杂了。比如现在跑步，定下了要跑多远，或者说是多长时间，就不要再去想要是跑不动怎么办，要是腿疼怎么办。其实都是扯淡。做事情也是一样，定下了目标，只要自己觉得可行，有挑战，就不要再动摇，坚持走下去。人一辈子只要做成一件事就够了。其实就是这样，很多时候，失败不是因为能力不够，不是因为智商不高，而是因为没有坚持，没有坚持就是因为想得太多，在这个时候，越聪明的人，越容易退缩，因为，聪明人总想去找捷径。所谓，伤其十指，不如断其一指。”
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| 评“想哄你一辈子” |
10/30/2004 12:52 |
BetterDays 评“想哄你一辈子”
想哄你一辈子
呵呵，我知道，女人最想要的，只不过是她心爱的男人对她的那份体贴和温存，只不过是在她撒娇耍赖时，无理取闹时，可以哄哄她，让着她。她心底真的想要的感觉，只不过是宠爱她的感觉,她想让你通过疼爱她来告诉她，在你心里她是最重要的。就这样的感觉，足以让一个女人快乐很久，她真的会觉得自己是地球上最幸福的小女人。
说到底，还是要她心爱，如果她不爱，你的体贴和温存只会成为她的负担。
女人要的真的不多。
我觉得女人要的挺多的。
但很多男人却不懂。
我的确不太懂。
他们以为女人想要金山银山，
我从来不这样认为，我认识的一些女孩，很讨厌黄金，尤其24K的。
所以在初次面对喜欢的女人时，总不忘吹嘘自己的事业的辉煌。
我是想吹啊，可也得有资本啊。以后一定要好好干活的说
这样的男人拥有了女人，他们会以为那是女人看中了他们的成功。
不是这样的男人，无法评价。
但女人会想，有比你更成功的男人追求我，而我选择你，是因为你的真诚打动了我。
没有真诚是万万不能的，但光有真诚还是不够的。
男人拼命工作，却往往忽略了女人的感受。
我认真工作，但从来不玩命，没事常瞎琢磨女人的感受，不过别人的评价是，“整天琢磨，还琢磨错了。” 
他们以为，只要不断的成功，女人就会满足。事实上，必要的物质上的安全感就足够了，男人崇爱女人还是需要温存和甜蜜。
对国家主席和总理是崇爱，崇敬加爱戴，对女人不能崇爱。
不管多忙，当女人无理取闹时，如果可以耐下心来，对她笑一笑，好好的哄哄她，抱抱她，那就足够了。女人会不间断的暗示你，她需要你抱她哄她了，那时，你一定要聪明的，满足她小小的需求，她就会非常快乐了。
有没有搞错啊，女人什么时候都是有理的，所以要闹也是有理取闹。另外，男人有时比较笨，暗示是不够的，需要明示
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| Historical moment. |
10/21/2004 06:20 |
We've just overthrown the evil empire. Sox citizens were finally liberated from 8 decades of torment and torture at the hands of the New York Yankees.
今年在这个坛子上结识了一些超级铁杆Sox fans, 在他们的感染下，I began to enjoy watching the baseball game. hehe... 大概我这个菜鸟是 lucky star, 以前我几乎不看，我们就一直输，今年一看，我们就赢了。
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10/20/2004 21:32 |
When I walked from the T station to home this evening, I suddenly felt very lonely. Maybe it was the weather. Maybe it was sth. else. I did't know. It just came from nowhere. It was dark. Few people on the street. All the stores closed. Lights were dim. No stars on the sky. Trying to escape, I started to run, faster and faster. After a while, I felt better. What a night!
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| baseball |
10/19/2004 11:19 |
In perhaps the most thrilling and torturous postseason game in 104 years of Red Sox baseball, the Sox last night beat the Yankees, 5-4 in the bottom of the 14th at 10:59 p.m. It was the longest game in League Championship Series history.
I'm far from a fan in baseball. In fact, this is the third baseball game I've ever watched. I still remembered the first game I watched a few years ago. I left Fenway Park halfway through the game because I just had no clue about the rules at that time. It was so boring. To me, it was only a bunch of guys making tedious repetitions of hitting a ball for millions of times. It just lacked the speed, dynamics and strategies in other games, such as basketball and soccer.
But a lof of my friends are hard-core baseball fans. They are so ecstastic talking about it all the time. This really get my interest arounsed. I have to know why they get so excited about it. So I start to pay attention to the news of Sox from time to time. Last Saturday, I went to King's bar in Prudential with friends for the second baseball game I've ever watched.
With Webird and Viking as the knowledgable instructors, I was quick to pick up the basic rules. By and by, I could pretty much follow what was going on in the game. Oh, man, the gigantic screen was absulutely awesome! The game itself was a disaster, though. Yankees had a massacre on Sox with 19-8. This was too much to bear with for many Sox fans. I didn't feel so bad, though. Emotionally, I was detached from the game. What caught my eyes and ears were the reactions of the audience. I could really feel the ebb and flow of their mood swing. To me, people watching was as exciting as the game itself.
A few days later, I ran through an article in Metro. The title was "It was only a game." Certainly it was not for the author. To him, it was more than a game. It is the difference between life and death, between hope and helplessness, between rapture and utter disgust.
Initially, I was puzzled by his comments. Why did he assign so many "extra" meanings and attributes to just a game? But then I understood, people love the game not for the game itself, but for what it represents and for what it can stiumulate in their own lives. I may never become a hard-core baseball fan. Well, never say never, you just never know, but I can certainly understand these fans' feelings. For me, I don't want to be a hard-core fan because I don't like my emotions easily swinged by a game I have absolutely no control and no influence over. I don't like my partial happiness resting in the hands of a few players I barely know. And for what the game represents and stimulates, I can surely find it in alternatives like literature, music and art. It's certainly not that one is superior to other. It's just that different people have different tastes. And that is good! It makes the world a wonderful, colorful and diversified one.
In any case, I do enjoy watching the baseball game now. I would never walk out of a game before it ends, ever. 
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| my colleage |
10/19/2004 00:22 |
I really appreciate the diversifed background of the people working in our group. They come from all corners of the world, West Africa, Malaysia, France, Middle East, Canada, Indonesia, Turkey, and of course, our homeland China. It's lot of pleasure talking with them when the job gets really boring sometime .
The Indonesian guy has been with the company for barely 3 months, fresh out of college. He is absolutely an expection to the usual image I have with Indonesians. Funny, talkative and energetic.
One day, we were each complaining about the high school in each country. After hearing his story, I felt I was so lucky.
to be continued...
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| Autumn is beautiful here. |
10/19/2004 00:00 |
Part of the reason that I went as far as Canada early this month was to see the autumn there. Supposedly there would be beautiful maple trees with firery red leaves. However, since we spent most time in the city and the sky was cloudy, the foliage was not as good as I had expected.
Last Sunday, I decided to drive around the area I live, the suburb to the southwest of Boston. I was totally amazed by what I saw. It was absolutely awesome. I love driving along the narrow curving roads with trees lining up on the sides, feeling like a general inspecting his army. I love the leaves flying in the sky and gently falling down. I love the sha-sha sound I made while walking on a thick layer of leaves. I love the reflection of the beautiful foliage in the lake as flat as a mirror, and I love the multi color, multi layer landscape.
Sometime, you don't have to travel far. The most beautiful thing may be just around the corner.
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